Dear singles, I thought it nice to share with you some possible places you can meet your spouse. I would like to change your perception of where you can meet them.
I do not want you to pitch your tent in your church area alone, or in whichever place you assume.
Some folks think they can only meet their spouse in the church, they believe it’s only in the church they attend they can meet their spouse. That’s a good belief though, but, I must advise you not to let that deter you from mingling with others or seeing the possibility of meeting someone you can get married to beyond the four walls of your church.
Here are the possible places you can find your spouse….
- LOCAL ASSEMBLY:
There is a 60% possibility of you meeting your spouse in your local assembly. However People are scattered everywhere, it might be that your spouse worships in another denomination.Your church can be very large and filled with several believers, but your spouse might not be there! I listened to the testimony of a lady, who resides in Lagos and she is an evangelist who travels to different states across the nation. It was in one of her outreaches in a different state that she met her spouse. God works mysteriously, so don’t base your belief on meeting your spouse in your local assembly alone.
2. HIGH SCHOOL:
It is very possible to meet your spouse here also, your spouse might be your coursemate.
I read a letter one of the bamiloye’s sons wrote to his wife, he specifically said he met her in class when he lectured.
The only issue here is that you have to be disciplined, do not major in the minor, When it’s time for lectures don’t go about hanging out, or not concentrating on what you went to school for.
You can actually build a sound relationship in school towards the end of your program just know what you are doing.
3. OFFICE (Workplace):
My elder sister met her spouse at her workplace, God can connect you at your workplace.
I actually had the belief that It was only In my local assembly that I could see my spouse funny right?
And I know some people still have such perceptions.
Your office is a strategic place to meet and connect with people, of which one can be your spouse!
4. RESIDENCE: This is a place most people tend to look down on, they do not like the thought of meeting anyone in their place of residence. to be very honest with you, you can meet your partner here also.
God’s job is just to connect you both, and he can do that anywhere so don’t base your assumptions on a particular place.
5. ONLINE: Yes, you can meet your partner online, but you have to be extra careful. In this case, people can be very deceptive so allow the holy spirit, also get your convictions and make sure when meeting anyone for the first time let it be in an open environment, eg, a restaurant.
Secondly, let the church marriage committee be aware of your relationship, and get to know their family mentor and pastor, from there you can kick start the courtship properly.
Mama choco (voice of a good woman) met her spouse online.
Minister Solomon Lange met his spouse online.
On and on like that, they are countless.
So be alert to the prompting of the holy spirit!
Written by Peace Udoh
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